Sunday, July 26, 2009

July 26, 2009


Quotes of the week

“Providing healthcare to the uninsured is a jobs killer, while not providing healthcare is merely a people killer”
~Steven Colbert
There's a legend that Ernest Hemingway was once challenged to create a six-word story, and he said, "For sale: baby shoes, never worn."

Meditation of the week

Before he closed his eyes, he let them wander round his old room . . . familiar and friendly things . . . which were so glad to see him again and could always be counted on for the same simple welcome.
--Kenneth Grahame

When they moved into the house, the room at the top of the stairs was just a junk room. As the years passed, they slowly transformed the room into a guest room.

When they decided they needed another voice in the house, they transformed the room again. Out went the fold-out couch, in came a crib and rocking chair; off went the art gallery prints from the walls, up went Winnie-the-Pooh. It was no longer a guest room, but a place for the baby, a new - and permanent - member of the family.

We always have room for more in our lives. When we are ready for it, what we need for growth will emerge.

Poem of the Week

Miracle of Bubbles

A woman drives to the video store
to rent a movie. It is Saturday night,
she is thinking of nothing in particular,
perhaps of how later she will pop popcorn
or hold hands with her husband and pretend
they are still in high school. On the way home
a plane drops from the sky, the wing shearing
her roof of her car, killing her instantly.
Here is a death, it could happen to any of us.
Her husband will struggle the rest of his days
to give shape to an event that does not mean
to be understood. Since memory cannot operate
without plot, he chooses the romantic — how young
she was, her lovely waist, or the ironic — if only
she had lost her keys, stopped for pizza.

At the precise moment the plane spiraled
out of control, he was lathering shampoo
into his daughter's hair, blond and fine
as cornsilk, in love with his life, his
daughter, the earth (for "cornsilk" is how
he thought of her hair), in love with the miracle
of bubbles, how they rise in a slow dance,
swell and shimmer in the steamy air, then
dissolve as though they never were.
"The Miracle of Bubbles" by Barbara Goldberg, from Cautionary Tales

Author of the week

It's the birthday of Zelda Fitzgerald, (books by this author) born Zelda Sayre in Montgomery, Alabama (1900). She was married to F. Scott Fitzgerald; the two met at a dance in July 1918. Zelda had performed "Dance of the Hours" for the whole crowd at the country club in Montgomery, and Scott was smitten and asked her to dance. She was smitten, too, and later described that first night they danced: "There seemed to be some heavenly support beneath his shoulder blades that lifted his feet from the ground in ecstatic suspension, as if he secretly enjoyed the ability to fly but was walking as a compromise to convention."
They went on their first date on this day, her birthday, in 1918. She later wrote to him about it, saying: "You were a young Lieutenant and I was a fragrant phantom, wasn't I? And it was a radiant night, a night of soft conspiracy and the trees agreed that it was all going to be for the best."
Zelda's family was wary of their union, and Zelda wouldn't marry him until his first novel was actually published. After he finished the manuscript, Fitzgerald wrote to his publisher asking him to speed up the publication of the book. He wrote, "I have so many things dependent on its success — including of course a girl." The book was published on March 26, 1920. A few days later, Zelda and Scott moved to New York City and got married at St. Patrick's Cathedral on April 3rd, — just one week after This Side of Paradise appeared in print.
They became known as the quintessential Jazz Age couple, the enfants terribles of New York City: beautiful, flashy, with money, and often drunk in public. When writer Dorothy Parker first encountered the couple, they were sitting on top of a taxicab. Parker wrote that they both looked "as though they had just stepped out of the sun; their youth was striking."
Zelda was F. Scott Fitzgerald's great muse and more: He not only modeled many of his characters after Zelda, he also used lines she'd written in letters to him. He even lifted things verbatim from her diary, including Amory Blaine's soliloquy, which comes at the end of This Side of Paradise.
The New York Tribune literary editor asked Zelda if she wanted to write a "cheeky" review of her husband's latest novel. She wrote:
"To begin with, every one must buy this book for the following aesthetic reasons: First, because I know where there is the cutest cloth of gold dress for only $300 in a store on Forty-second Street, and also if enough people buy it where there is a platinum ring with a complete circlet, and also if loads of people buy it my husband needs a new winter overcoat, although the one he has has done well enough for the last three years. … It seems to me that on one page I recognized a portion of an old diary of mine which mysteriously disappeared shortly after my marriage, and also scraps of letters which, though considerably edited, sound to me vaguely familiar. In fact, Mr. Fitzgerald — I believe that is how he spells his name — seems to believe that plagiarism begins at home."
Zelda suffered from schizophrenia and spent the later part of her life in and out of mental hospitals. F. Scott Fitzgerald had first placed her in a hospital in 1936, after she had become violent and delusional. He wrote a friend, "Zelda now claims to be in direct contact with Christ, William the Conqueror, Mary Stuart, Apollo, and all the stock paraphernalia of insane-asylum jokes. … For what she has really suffered, there is never a sober night that I do not pay a stark tribute of an hour to in the darkness."
She died at age 47 after a kitchen fire in the psychiatric hospital spread all over the building. She and other women on the upper floors could not escape because the fire escapes were made of wood and had gone up in flames.

Good Idea of the week

Single-payer health care takes the profit out of healthcare. 6 out of 10 of us want it, but our “representatives” aren’t even talking about it!

Video of the week

Drug Courts Work! I see it every day in the shining eyes of recovering people discovering the joys of life in recovery. Join us and we can “all rise”! www.Allrise.org

Websites of the week

Your weekly Presidential address and much more

 (Hey, if you haven’t yet, watch these interviews, they are really neat!)
Kelly Eugene Guinn (skipped), Billie Francis Rice and John

And finally, the culmination of millennia of scientific endeavor

Sunday, July 19, 2009

July 19th, 2009


Quotes of the week

If you're afraid to die, you will not be able to live.
~James Baldwin
Good followers do not become good leaders. To be sure, the good follower may win many promotions, but that does not make him a leader.

Dr. Laurence Peter
Two men look out through the same bars:
One sees the mud, and one the stars.

Fredrick Langbridge (1849 - 1923)
“If all else fails, I will retreat up the valley
of Virginia, plant my flag on the blue
ridge, rally around the Scotch-Irish of
that region and make my last stand for
liberty amongst a people who will
never submit to British tyranny whilst
there is a man left to draw a trigger.”
General George W. Washington
At Valley Forge

Meditation of the week

If you wish to make an apple pie truly from scratch, you must first invent the universe.
--Carl Sagan

Everything is given to us. Our lives came forth with no plan on our part. We have no lease on life and no control, ultimately, over any possession. In the addictive and codependent families most of us came from, we learned something else. We learned a lonely arrogance that said, "I should be self sufficient. I have earned everything that ever came to me." Deep down we probably knew how untrue that was, and we felt great self doubt.

The cure we learn in this program for our lonely arrogance is a miracle and a blessing. We accept that we are part of a larger whole. Now it dawns on us - all of our friends and relatives share this basic powerlessness. We are all pilgrims. We are all guests. We are all stewards of creation. We can be close, and we must help one another because everyone is equally vulnerable.

Poem of the Week

Latina Worker

Then I notice through a triple-Americano-awakening moment,
in the mall food court, a young Latina cleaning around by the chrome rail
at Sbarro Pizza. Maybe a Guatemalan, possibly Salvadoran or
Honduran—

could've been Argentinean or Columbian, Chilean, Bolivian,
Panamanian—good chance a Peruvian, Venezuelan, Nicaraguan, Mayan,
Toltec, Sephardic, Huichol coffee plantation or U.S. Fruit Company

or tobacco company or auto industry slave labor robot or CIA-trained
death squad Guardia Nacional butchery massacre survivor.

Several tables down from mine--roughly stacking chairs on tops
of tables—cussing in Spanish, in the mall food court, she hates her job,
I hate her job.

Author of the week

It was on July 6th in 1957 that John Lennon and Paul McCartney met at a church dance in Liverpool, England. John Lennon was almost 17, and Paul McCartney had just turned 15. Lennon had formed a band called the Quarrymen. They were all right, but not great, and they couldn't play at bars because they were all underage. But they got a gig playing at St. Peter's Church for the annual summer garden party, on a stage in a field behind the church, and then again that night in the dance hall at the church. Paul McCartney heard the band and thought they were pretty good — especially John Lennon. Paul went to school with one of the band members, who took him over to the band and introduced him while they were setting up for their second show. Paul said that he played guitar, and also that he knew how to tune one. No one in the band could tune their own guitars — they took them to a specialist — so they were impressed. Paul taught John how to tune, and he sang him a few recent rock songs, including a medley by Little Richard. And about a week later, John asked Paul to join the band.

Good Idea of the week

I regularly investigate free computer protection programs for home use and these are the ones I use:
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Free malware scanner scans for malware and spyware infections.

Video of the week

Hammer Pants Dance

(Thanks to my awesome daughter, Lee)


Websites of the week

Your weekly Presidential address and much more

 (I helped a woman like Lynn overcome some of her problems and I have met people like these in counseling my whole career.)
Doc Whitman from Marfa, Texas and Barry from Fort Davis, Texas and Lynn from Graham, Texas

And finally, the culmination of millennia of scientific endeavor

Sunday, July 12, 2009

July 12th, 2009


Word of the week

jingo; or jingoism , a person who professes his or her patriotism loudly and excessively, favoring vigilant preparedness for war and an aggressive foreign policy; bellicose chauvinist.  /ˈdʒɪŋ goʊ/ noun, plural -goes, adjective –noun

Quotes of the week

Our doubts are traitors
And make us lose the good we oft might win,
By fearing to attempt.

~William Shakespeare (1564 - 1616)
Do not then stand idly waiting,
For some greater work to do;
Fortune is a lazy goddess,
She will never come to you.

~Ellen M. H. Gates (1834 - 1920)
If one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams, and endeavors to live the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success unexpected in common hours."
~Ralph Waldo Emerson

Meditation of the week

  1. "Our impact on the world is slight
    so take life as a comedy,
    play it for laughs.
    You die, there is a sort of decent grief
    a few people really do suffer from your absence
    but the impact on the greater world is not that big.
    You do not leave a big hole.
    They dig a hole and they put you in it."
  2. "Now that I am the age that I am
    I find myself less interested in the adult world.
    I feel myself going back to the ravine
    and going back to the sort of loose, dreamy feeling
    that you had when you were twelve and thirteen.
    We see the world clearly when we are children,
    and we spend the rest of our lives
    trying to remember what is was we saw."

Poem of the Week

Rose Garden, Summer Solstice

Everyone here believes that the roses
are blooming only for them, there where the air
by the formal beds is layered with the scent
of roses. From deep in their flushed and darkening hearts
pour odors of lemons and pepper, apricots, honey,
vanilla and myrrh and musk and semen, apples and quince,
raspberries and wine and ocean, the faint
scent of blood and the fragrance of death and the breath
of the life we are living now, in this place
where the roses are blooming for each of us, alone.

Author of the week

It was on this day in 1960 that To Kill a Mockingbird was published. It was written by Nelle Harper Lee, (books by this author) who dropped the "Nelle" because she didn't want anyone calling her "Nellie."
She grew up in Monroeville, Alabama, which was the model for her fictional town of Maycomb. When she was a kindergartner, she made friends with her next-door-neighbor, a boy of the same age named Truman Capote. The character of Dill in To Kill a Mockingbird was based on him.
When Lee was in her early twenties, she dropped out of law school in Alabama and moved to New York to join Capote and write. She spent eight years working on a novel, and she had several drafts but couldn't get it to come together, and she got so frustrated that she threw it out her apartment window. It was the middle of winter, and all the pages landed in the snow. She called her editor, who sternly told her to get outside and pick up those pages, which she did. To Kill a Mockingbird was published in 1960. It became a best seller within weeks, and won the Pulitzer Prize. It has sold more than 30 million copies.

Good Idea of the week

Sick around the World- Frontline looks at Healthcare

Video of the week

Bruce Lee playing ping pong with a nun chuck

Websites of the week

Your weekly Presidential address and much more

And finally, the culmination of millennia of scientific endeavor

20 Scary Old School Surgical Tools (do NOT look at this!)

Sunday, July 5, 2009

July 5th, 2009


Quotes of the week

  1. Cowards die many times before their deaths; the valiant never taste of death but once.
  2. Of all the wonders that I yet have heard, it seems to me most strange that men should fear, Seeing that death, a necessary end, Will come when it will come.~Julius Caesar
  3. Whether it be friend or foe, talk not of other men's lives. ~The Apocrypha
  4. The voice of the sea speaks to the soul.  The touch of the sea is sensuous, enfolding the body in its soft, close embrace. ~Kate Chopin
  5. Brevity is the soul of wit. ~Proverb, (Latin)

Meditation of the week

Condemn the fault and not the actor of it.
William Shakespeare
How many times do we beat ourselves up because we have failed to attain the goals we have set? We are human and suffer from a disease that renders us helpless and out of control. Is it any wonder that we fail in trying to dominate such an unforgiving beast?

It is not ourselves we should be angry with, but the disease and how it affects our actions and reactions. Often our only failing is to realize that we cannot achieve recovery alone. We need help. Without it we are weak and defenseless. This disease would have us believe we are failures, but in reality all we have done is open the doors to our enemy. These doors can be closed again; the disease not only manifests itself in the form of uncontrollable eating, but negative thoughts and actions against ourselves and those around us.

It takes no more time to think positively than it does to think negatively. Our only job is to remember that we have a disease. We can choose to forget it, we can choose to beat ourselves up when we left the door ajar or we can choose to forgive ourselves and begin again.
One day at a time ...
I will work on forgiving myself.
I am worth forgiving.
You are too.

Poem of the Week

"Hope is the thing with feathers
That perches in the soul
And sings the tune without the words
And never stops at all."

Emily Dickinson

Author of the week

It's the birthday of Nobel Prize-winning author Hermann Hesse, (books by this author) born in Calw, a village in the Black Forest of Germany (1877). He's the author of the novels Siddhartha (1922), Steppenwolf (1929), and The Glass Bead Game (1943), as well as a large body of poetry.
His family moved to Switzerland, and then back to Germany, and Hesse enrolled in a Protestant seminary there. But he was miserable and would run away from school and hide out overnight in nearby fields. He tried to commit suicide, and was transferred from one psychiatric ward to another. Eventually, he got a job at a bookshop, where he spent 12 hours a day sorting through volumes of philosophy and theology, shipping some out and putting others in archives. At night, he went home and wrote poetry. He got his first collection of poems, Romantic Songs, published in 1898, but it was a dismal failure, selling only 54 copies over two years. But the publisher saw potential in the 22-year-old Hesse and encouraged him to keep writing.
At 27, he published his first novel, Peter Camenzind, and from then on, he was able to earn a living entirely from writing. He took a trip to India and started studying Eastern religions, and ancient Hindu and Chinese cultures. This knowledge and interest are evident in his novel Siddhartha (1922), a story about Buddha's rebellion against tradition and his quest for enlightenment. The novel was translated into English and published in the United States in 1951, and it soon was incredibly popular among beatniks and others who subscribed to the American counterculture of the decades that followed. In Siddhartha, Hesse writes:
And he found: "It was the self, the purpose and essence of which I sought to learn. It was the self, I wanted to free myself from, which I sought to overcome. But I was not able to overcome it, could only deceive it, could only flee from it, only hide from it. Truly, no thing in this world has kept my thoughts thus busy, as this my very own self, this mystery of me being alive, of me being one and being separated and isolated from all others, of me being Siddhartha! And there is no thing in this world I know less about than about me, about Siddhartha!"
During World War I, Hesse's life was in constant turmoil. He had written an essay urging German intellectuals to not succumb to the propaganda of patriotism, and now found himself the target of hate mail. Friends denounced him, his wife became schizophrenic, his father died, his son became seriously ill, and his marriage dissolved, all within the span of a few years. Hesse started going to psychotherapy sessions with one of Carl Jung's assistants, and Hesse became acquainted with Carl Jung himself.
After the War, Hesse remarried and wrote Steppenwolf (1927). The current pope once listed Steppenwolf as one of his favorite books, saying it "exposes the problem of modernity's isolated and self-isolating man." Hesse became a Swiss citizen, and in 1931 he got married to a woman who had first written him a letter 20 years before, when she was only 14. They'd kept in touch and met by coincidence several years later. She was an art historian, and 23 years younger than he, and after they married and moved in together, he led a peaceful and happy life, although he was placed on the Nazi blacklist for helping political refugees during World War II. He won the Nobel Prize in 1946 and quit writing novels. But he did continue to write poems and newspaper articles until he died in his sleep at the age of 85 from leukemia, which he did not know he had.
Hesse said: "There is no reality except the one contained within us. That is why so many people live such an unreal life. They take the images outside them for reality and never allow the world within to assert itself."

Good Idea of the week

Five capitalist democracies and how they do healthcare
Healthcare graphs

Video of the week

Websites of the week

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And finally, the culmination of millennia of scientific endeavor